A mouse Tirasumu

There once was a mouse, Tirasumu,
Who'd make your toes curl when she'd kiss you,
closing her eyes,
she softly confides,
when your gone one day, I will miss you.

First Publication

So, I was published for the first time as a journalist for the Southern Utah University Journal Monday, March 2nd 2009. The article is a bit boring by my standards but I guess journalists are not supposed to use descriptive terminology that insinuates perspective. Anyway, it made FRONT PAGE!!!! Above the fold!!!! I am super excited.

Here is a link:

http://media.www.suujournal.com/media/storage/paper951/news/2009/03/05/SuusaElections/Suusa.Seeks.Election.Involvement-3654414.shtml

Modern Mans Violent Urges

Carin Miller 02/10/09
English 1010-11 Reaction Essay

In the earliest days the role of a man was to hunt food and protect their families from the predators that could and would eat them if given the opportunity. Enemies lurked around every corner so a man had to be strong, aggressive, and fearless. There was no room for hesitation, in a moment life could end and usually in violent, tragic ways.

The women in those days were required to look after the children and tend to the hearth. They would collect herbs and berries for food and medicine. Woman’s role was to meet all of the immediate needs of the family but due to their smaller build women were dependent upon man’s strength in order to survive the dangers that threatened to disrupt or end their lives.

All of that has changed drastically. In modern society there is no need for man to hunt for food, hunting has become a sport. These days he can just walk into the local grocery store and find whatever he wants to eat. Women, rather than tending to the hearth, carry briefcases and go to work while the children are in school all day. The wild animals that once threatened to ravage human beings are kept at bay by invisible city walls, a boundary that they rarely cross.

With over 10,000 years of genetic programming the human race has been required to acclimate to the lifestyle of the contemporary world in only 100 short years. That then begs the question; what do we do with all of the internal instincts that we have been programmed with from the dawn of human existence? There has to be an outlet for all of the aggression that men would be using for survival, no?

It makes sense that men would turn to sports and movies in order to find a way to release all of the pressure fighting their instinctual nature creates. With the competitive drive of sports like football and baseball, action heroes like Jason Bourne, outlaws like Scarface, and savvy crime fighters out to save the world like agent 007, men can rest assure that their role as aggressor and protector will remain firmly in tact.

The raw, rugged appearances that these men emulate make women instantly feel protected. There is something distinct about the way men like this walk, talk, eat, breathe, and smell. These apparently violent men are hot and functional! In other words not they are not “just another pretty face.” They know what they want and they take it. No questions, no apologies, only a knowledge that, despite the danger they may confront nothing will stop them from attaining their goal.

Women see commercials for products Levi’s and Braun and they are intrigued by the rough and tumble qualities these men portray. It is generally presumed that these ingredients are the requirement for a man to be “a real man.” Men in turn want to buy these products so that women will find them more appealing. This attraction helps ensure that women and men, while gradually merging into the same social roles, still are interested in the opposite sex enough that the human race will continue.

With that being said I think I would be remiss not to mention women are increasingly moving into violent, aggressive, spectacular roles in the movies and advertising as well. Take for instance Lara Croft: Tomb Raider. She is elegant and sexy, yet she can take on five guys at the same time and kick all of their asses without so much as smudging her lipstick.

It occurs to me that as we continue to move forward into a more liberated equal perspective of the sexes, gender roles will be forced to continually redefine themselves. I can only speculate based on the current manifestation that women and men alike will become increasingly more androgynous as the characteristics of what defines the sexes becomes increasingly less distinct on either side. One way or the other, only time will tell for sure.

The Contemporary Slave

Carin Miller

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I've heard it said before that the new form of slavery is capitalism. Living in today’s world it is hard to see the dawn before the day. Everything moves so quickly and there is this nagging voice in the back of your mind going “You have to keep up, hurry.” So day to day you get up and drone on. It’s hard not to feel like a lemming at times. You go to work and produce so you can continue to feed the corporate machine knowing that should you refuse to do so eventually you are certain to meet your demise.

Without the funds you reap through your tireless labor you no longer have the false sense of stability and comfort that the modern world has convinced you since birth you require for survival. The amenities afforded act as a drug luring you back in, believing that without such things as: electric, cable, or Wal-Mart you are no less than doomed. Of course you are. After all you need all of these things!

One day I stopped to fill my tank at Maverick and the power had gone out. The pump wouldn't turn on and so I went in to talk to the attendant. Inside I found a young man in nothing less than a frantic state. Not only had the power gone out but the backup generator didn't kick in. He was on someone’s cell phone obviously talking to his boss trying to explain that without the electric he couldn't even open the drawer to make change and people had already pumped gas. I grabbed a drink and walked over to the counter where I was informed that even if I was paying with exact change there was no way for me to be rung up and besides “I am not sure how to figure the tax anyway”

I couldn't believe that we have come so far that a little thing like figuring 6.5% on the dollar would be much too difficult to calculate without the help of a computer. I was actually turned away, along with many others. People who had pumped gas were being asked to leave their ID's along with a contact number to be reached at a later time when the system was up. It was to me, absolutely unfathomable.

When I consider the pitfalls that our current technological dependencies offer I am fearful for my children and for “generation: Right Now” as I have taken to calling them. Tomorrows children are so inundated with the immediacy of today that they don't even know the difference.

I remember a time when there was no Internet, no cell phones, no caller ID, or
Youtube videos to watch at your own convenience. If you wanted to watch a TV program you waited until it aired, there were no DVR’s for future viewing. As a matter of fact there wasn’t even VHS, only Beta and you had to have money to have those bad boys! Entertainment did not consist of PS3 or Xboxes but Atari was on the cutting edge. I vividly remember my parents being awed at the animation of Pac Man and Donkey Kong. I never had a microwave until I was in my early teens. They didn’t even exist when I was little. If you wanted to reheat last night’s dinner you used it in tonight’s dish.

Call me old fashioned but I miss those days. The days when you imagination was your best friend and the backyard would become some sort of deep Congo jungle where you could collide with a wild animal lurking around the tree trunk at any given moment. The days when you would do the simple arithmetic to a math problem in your head and you could turn out a correct answer, and if you couldn’t you just got out a pencil and a piece of paper, no problem. How about disappearing deep into the pages of a novel written by your favorite author. My kids have to almost be forced to read these days. Sure I enjoy some of the modern conveniences but sometimes I wonder what the payoff really is. I save more time yes, but in kind, I find more things that need doing, don’t I.

The happiest time in my life was a few short months in the summer of 1997. I had nothing to my name that I couldn’t fit in a backpack. It was just me, my pack, and the open road. I left home with $.63 in my pocket and no idea how I was going to get where I was going and even the destination was a mystery. All I did know was there was this feeling in my gut that I couldn’t ignore and the rest would unfold as it was meant to happen.

It was amazing. I felt more liberated more alive more at peace with myself than I ever had in my entire life up to that point! The idea that I had no place I had to be. There was nothing holding me back from exploring the world and no “strings and things” to get in the way. The plain and simple fact was, there was nothing in this material world that I needed, and what’s more I found that without these things staring at me all the time I didn’t want them either.

The people I met during this time were the most dynamic thoughtful people you could ever make the acquaintance of. I learned from every single one of them. I learned about the world, about other people, more importantly about myself. I found strength within me I had no Idea existed. Sure my father worried. He even tried “talking sense into me” but I knew what I was doing was exactly what I was supposed to be doing. There was just no getting around it.

I am glad that I had that experience. I can honestly tell you that if my house burnt down tomorrow and my family all made it out safely I would most likely feel more relief than anxiety. I would miss some of those things, sure. Still I don’t think that the event for me would be cataclysmic.

Some call modern day consumerists "cult members." You know the scariest part of a cult? The fact that, those who immerse themselves, participate in, and let it rule their lives usually don’t even know they’re in it!

Clothes Make the Man

Carin Miller 01/29/09
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“Apart from the chameleon, man is the only animal who can change his skin to suit his background. Indeed, if he is to function successfully he must do so.....
When a child puts a chameleon down to the earth and it does not turn brown we know the creature is seriously ill.”~Alison Lurie

I think there is something to be said for Alison Lurie's astute analogy. People are quite like chameleons. I find that to be true more often than not. We change to suit our environments. Have you ever had a group of friends outside of you “circle”? A whole other circle of people you only would show a particular representative too. This representative looks like you, sounds like you, but that's where the similarities end.This other personification of your Self is still you, no? I am sure that it is. Just a different side of you.

This side of you can say, critique a piece of art. In this environment you can relax and speak your mind about art and know that others, although they may differ in opinion, still comprehend the basics of the language. They know what leading lines are, if there is a staccato vibe, or if the piece feels is more legato? You know that when you are with a group of other art aficionado's everyone there can speak the same language. Here we feed the hunger of our minds, but is this what defines you? No, this is just that particular translation of you.

Inside lurking there is yet another personality dying to get out. This externalization of an alter ego is quite comfortable hanging out at home talking smack with his peeps, eating pizza on the couch, and having burping contests. Try talking about kinesthetic empathy with these guys. They'll look at you like you have horns growing out of your head. So, you conform to meet the needs and expectations of said group. This identity is the laid back, less sophisticated, version of the doppelganger.

Why do we do this? It is my contention that the phenomena is not so much related to ones need for acceptance, which may be your first suspicion, but more over an inexplicable urge to connect. Humans place a great deal of value on connectivity and
we tend to do the things we need to in order to connect with the right people to further our path or goal.

You might say “that seems selfish.” and you would be right. If you ask me though, I think we have a right to be just a little selfish, and we as humans are by nature. If you buy into the whole “Survival of the Fittest” theory than you know we have to be selfish, simply to survive. Selfishness is the only way to fulfill our needs.

I think there is more to it than that though. I sincerely believe that our ability to blend into any given situation allows us opportunities to grow and gain perspective on not only the world around us but who we are inside. I look forward to each new personification of my former self as I continue to evolve into “what some day will surely be, the me I'm meant to be.”

The fact is when you dress in a certain style you attract other people who have similar tastes as you. People assume that if you dress like them then you must have the same tastes in other things as well. It only makes sense.

I think my clothes can say different things about me every day. Sometimes they might say, “I am FABULOUS!” and other times they might say things like, “Auughh, morning came waay to early today.” Either way I am sending a message to a receiver. How that receiver decodes and then interprets that information is only known by them. All I can do is hope, when it all comes out in the end, I haven't been misread.

True Country

What is country music? Dictionary.com defines it as:

Country Music:
~noun
a style and genre of largely string-accompanied American popular music having roots in the folk music of the Southeast and cowboy music of the West, usually vocalized, generally simple in form and harmony, and typified by romantic or melancholy ballads accompanied by acoustic or electric guitar, banjo, violin, and harmonica.

It has already been established that music is an integral part of my life and has been from the very beginning. I remember, as a child, hearing songs played on my daddy’s guitar. I never really thought of them as “Country” or “Rock-N-Roll”, I never considered if they were “Hardcore” or “Easy-listening.” To me it was all just wonderful. I recall the first time I heard Mommas Don’t Let Your Babies Grow up to be Cowboys on the radio. I was crushed. Honestly, until then, I truly believed my father had written that song (and many others that I eventually found out weren’t really his songs). I laugh now when I think of it. I bet he had a good laugh then.

Much like Eck’s father, my father too, towards the end of his years also became a bit of a country music purist. The first time I was in the car with him after having lived away for many years, I went to change the dial and immediately felt a feverous stinging on my hand. Shocked I turned to defend myself and stopped short when I noticed the determined annoyed look on his face. When questioned about the assault my father simply said, “Country is the only damn music on the radio worth listening to anymore!” I thought I would die! At the time I was busy absorbing things like Sublime, Ben Harper, and Bob Marley. Country! Could he possibly be serious? Oh and he was!

It wasn’t until I was a bit older that I realized just exactly how much of the music I spent my entire life enjoying had been rooted in country in some form or another. I started to notice how blurry the lines had actually become between many genres. Maybe there was an absence of the twangy twang that some of the true “Nashville sound” possesses still, the roots are not only apparent they are strong.

Personally I don’t believe music can be put in a box and constrained. I see music as an ever evolving platform of expression. I think to say that country music itself is “Anglo Celtic” and that it can only be defined as country if one looks and acts the part is distressingly short sighted. Ecks went on and on about the various styles of music belonging each to its own distinct ethnicity or race. While some sounds certainly may originate with each assorted culture the thread that weaves its way through the masses scream diversity.

Eck’s argument begins to fray when he mistakenly omits that ethnicity and race do not decide how a culture develops, the physical and social environment that a group of people are surrounded by and immersed in do. This acculturation is the breeding ground for new styles and formats of music throughout history. That having been said, it is my contention that he almost comes across as a bit prejudice. Now I don’t mean that he comes across as having a loathing for any one ethnicity, race, or sound in particular. More over that he separated everything so much that every nuance became something to find fault in.

I don’t agree with a vast majority of his opinion. It would have been more helpful wrap my brain around what he was saying if perhaps he had some sort of hard evidentiary information to back his claims. For instance some sort of music theory that has been established or a study that has been published in a peer reviewed journal. Any other sources would better establish his accreditation on the subject. Maybe if he himself was a country musician who has repeatedly sold hit “Country” albums. So far as I can see his article was no more than the mad ravings of one man’s opinion, and you know what they say about opinions! That’s my story and I’m sticking to it.

It appears as though the author’s rhetoric is illustrating how any deviation from the widely acclaimed Nashville sound is an abomination to country. He tries to persuade you to believe that country music is not only a white bread music but that it is a particular form of Americanized Celtic, I don’t know what. His purpose is somewhat obscure by his opinion and I am not sure that it got through for me. Meaning, I am not sure what he intended his audience to get out of it. It seems as though he was writing this for his father and others like him rather that for a broader more diversified audience.

Got MTV?

English 1010
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Growing up my parents wouldn’t allow cable in the house, not because of its reputation, but for the sheer impracticality of the expense. I thought they were being unfair and would regularly stage an argument, on behalf of the kids in the home, for exactly why they should reconsider their position. No matter how well thought out, how litigiously presented, my efforts were fruitless! It seemed to me my parents simply had no reason. All of that changed in the summer of 1988.

My parents had gotten a divorce early on in the year, I was devastated. To make matters worse my father met someone shortly there-after and they fell madly inlove. OOOH, I was so mad. All I could think was “what kind of spell must she have him under?” Out of the blue she moves in and next thing you know their married. I inherited along with the package a room-mate in the form of a step-sister and two step brothers. For the first time ever I had to share a room!

I remember one of the things that changed shortly after Mary’s arrival was my father’s position on cable being a needless expense. Next thing you know not only do we have cable but my dad went the extra mile to pay for HBO! I couldn’t believe it! He caved!

For the next several years I lived on MTV. Along with the rest of the siblings I would sit like a zombie for hours listening to the endless dribble the MTV media gods would spew at us. Everything from head bangers ball, (the real head bangers ball, you know before dude cut off all of his hair and started acting like a wuss), to the first Real World, (Puck Rules!), what about remote control, remember that one? It’s hard to think back on it all and not laugh hysterically. I mean, I was sold hook line and sinker.

Reading this article made me laugh over and over. I identify with so much of it. I look at my children and the tender ages of 8 and 9 (they’ll turn before the 4 and 2 yrs old) and I am sad for the day when they buy in. MTV somehow seems to have become even more superficial than it was 18 years ago when I was hooked and I think that’s saying something!

There really doesn’t seem to be anything of value. Still, when reading his daughters accounts it was hard not to become nostalgic. It took me back to when NKTOB first came out and I used to try and catch all of the newest videos, later staying up all night to catch the world premiere of Metallica’s Unforgiven. Later still, gaining resentment for the lack of videos and replacement of too many stupid reality shows. I think I even boycotted MTV for a while.

Now-a-days when I flip on the TV I head for Nat Geo. Or Discovery channels like MTV seem too superficial. When I flip on the radio I listen to NPR rather than the radio, I like it better. It seems to me music hasn’t changed much in the last 10-15 yrs. There is a shortage of new and unique sounds coming over the radio waves and I get tired of hearing the same regurgitated crap with different lyrics and a new beat over and over. NPR informs me and allows me to get the news in a way that hasn’t yet been inundated with media spin.

I prefer finding new music through word of mouth anymore. My friends have a good ear and always turn me on to new stuff. I go to shows when I can and check out new groups in the locality. I may even check out something new online every once in a while. When you have a preference of artist over singer it’s hard to find a “diamond in the rough” so to speak, with all the hyped up, watered down, corporate cultivation of the perfect star. You know what I mean right? The singer looks the part and with a little bit of work on the studio eventually they might sound the part too and if they don’t who cares? We can always just synthesize the track until it sounds like they do! Teenagers can keep their MTV as far as I’m concerned. I certainly have no more use for it, and in the long run I turned out okay, so why wouldn't they?